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I went from brutal breakup to sex & relationship expert
But, I need to be straight up with you...
If you are hunting for some tantric sex tips or a Kundalini awakening. Sorry to burst your bubble, but you won't find that here. Relationships are complex, and love alone won't always keep the bedroom satisfying and fulfilling—this is a fact. I'm extremely empathic however, there's no sugarcoating, no cupcake coaching, and no spiritual mumbo jumbo. Just honest insights to help you through tough times.
If you're seeking genuine advice, you can count on me not to bullshit you. I'll lovingly support you by telling you what you need to hear, not what you want to hear - even if it stings a little.
My Professional Bio...
Over the years, countless hours have been invested in experiencing various modalities around the country and overseas, connecting with world-renowned teachers of the highest quality. I will continue to be a student forever.
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Certified Somatic Sex Educator (Institute of Somatic Sexology)
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Certified Sexological Bodyworker (Institute of Somatic Sexology)
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Certified Facilitator of The Wheel of Consent (Dr Betty Martin)
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Certified Intimacy & Attraction Facilitator (Michaela Boehm & Steve James)
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Certified Non-Linear Movement Method Teacher Training (Michaela Boehm & Steve James)
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Certified Wild Woman's Circle Teacher Training (Michaela Boehm & Steve James)
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Certified Level 5 Kahuna Bodywork & Massage (Mette Institute)
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Certified Urban Tantra Teacher (Barbara Carrellas)
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Diploma of Professional Counselling (AIPC)
I loved him wholeheartedly, but love is not enough!
For me, there were no tearful conversations over a cup of tea or wine at the kitchen table. No, there was no chance to fix what I didn't even know was broken.
After ten years of being in a committed and open relationship, he dropped the bomb. It was over. He had someone else. And just like that, I was told to pack a suitcase and get out. I had no car, no job, and nowhere to live. Grief-stricken and bewildered because I loved this man wholeheartedly. My heart was shattered into a million pieces, and I felt a pain I never knew existed. But the real agony came with the realisation that I wouldn't see the children I had raised and loved as my own.
My breakup was abrupt, and let me tell you, it was fucking brutal.
It changed me forever. Through the pain, I've come to cherish my delicate and beautifully fragile heart. It transformed me. And that's why - I am deeply compassionate about protecting your heart because I know first hand how painful heartbreak can be.
Why should you learn from someone who doesn't talk crap?
Nothing grinds my gears more than the overnight hyper-sexualised Instagram Tantrika flashing their fanny for "followers" or some Tantric fuck-tard who attended a weekend workshop or two and now disguises re-traumatizing people as break-throughs while smelling of tea tree oil and going by their guru name of 'Rainbow Mocha Sunshine'!
Seriously, eye roll anyone?
Always do your research on your teachers, teachers! Don't be afraid to ask questions (and LOTS of them), and if answers sound like a pile of fluff and fairytales, you might have a pleasant experience, but you won't learn sustainable skills.
Now, I know you're here because you want your relationships to be spicy and long lasting, and that's where I come in!
Let's turn your date nights into something more than going out for dinner - because, let's face it, that doesn't make sex hot! Specific components are required to have flirty fun, fulfilling, and flavourful sex so you don't get stuck on rinse and repeat.
I respect that you're here because you're willing to make those changes. You want practical teachings that make sense and work. You want to feel confident that you and your partner are speaking the same language so that you don't end up with death by resentment - and boy, do I know how that feels!
Let me help you make a real change without all the fluff and bullshit!