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Let’s be honest: kissing can sometimes feel like a bit of an obligation in long-term relationships. A lot of couples seem to think it’s just something you do before getting down to business. But when kissing becomes routine or, even worse, starts with bad breath (yikes!) or you got straight in with too much tongue or sloppy spit…(even bigger yikes), it can quickly go from being a turn-on to a major turn-off!
So, let’s get back to the good stuff—kissing as an art form. Here’s how to bring some real sensuality into your kisses.
Slow It Down.
One of the sexiest things about a kiss is the build-up. That slow burn of anticipation can make the moment so much more exciting. So, before you even get to the kiss, take a breath, get close to your partner and feel the tension between you.
Start by gently touching their back. Keep it natural but make it feel sexy. This isn’t the time to overthink things—Let your analytical brain fall asleep and wake up your primal brain now.
Feel the sexual tension in your own body, then let it linger. Move your hands slowly, notice how they respond, and if you’re feeling it, you might even whisper something cheeky in a low, sultry voice. That’s how you build the moment.
Your Energy Affects Theirs.
Your energy during a kiss is contagious. If you’re feeling it, your partner will feel it, too. So, when you’re about to kiss, let your eyes close just a little to give off that ‘I’m so into this’ look. Because the energy you’re putting out is going to bounce right back to you.
As your lips meet, keep things soft and slow. Touch your partner's lower back while you kiss—this area is often super sensitive because it’s close to the genitals, but not too close, so it keeps the tension simmering without diving in too fast.
Let your tongue lightly explore the warmth of their lips and tongue, and at the same time, feel the connection between your bodies. You might even notice their heartbeat if you’re really in the moment.
Make Some Noise.
If you’re on the shy side, this might feel a bit awkward, but trust me—it makes a difference. Making soft, sexy sounds while you’re kissing lets your partner know you’re into it, that this isn’t just routine. It’s a way of saying, “Hey, I’m fully here with you, and I’m loving it.” You’re showing them that the chemistry is real - (and not just any chemistry)—the kind with a capital C. 😊
Keep the Spark Alive.
Mastering the art of a sensual kiss can bring new life to your relationship. It’s not just about the physical connection; it’s about keeping that intimate, alive feeling between you and your partner.
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