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EROTIC JOURNAL
I have a love/hate relationship with the hippy-whoo-whoo, however, I go bra-less and wear jingly sandals on occasion. I reserve the right to change my opinions without apology.
For people who are gendered differently and identify as queer or LGBTQIA+, please note that majority of my clients are cisgender male/female dynamics; therefore, I predominantly use the words men/women and pronouns him/her/he/she.


SEX AFTER KIDS
How to have better sex after kids A relationship is a dynamic. When circumstances change, the relationship also changes. When you get...
Wala Truscott
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BEING SEXY V's HAVING SEX APPEAL
What's the difference? Discover the difference between sexiness and sex appeal. Read Wala Truscott's insights now! The difference between...
Wala Truscott
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JUNK FOOD SEX V's DEEPLY CONNECTED SEX
Sex can heal or hurt people and this is why... Let's have a look at these choices when it comes to health : Fast Food – quick, cheap,...
Wala Truscott
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DO WOMEN WANT BIG DICKS?
There is a myth: Women want big dicks – the bigger, the better. However, granted, some size queens are out there only wanting 10"...
Wala Truscott
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LET'S TALK ABOUT SEX
In most marriages or relationships, what is the most common elephant in the room? Money? Sex? Disconnection? Boredom? Power? Mind games?...
Wala Truscott
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ARE YOU LOOKING FOR A SOULMATE? WAIT...DO YOU HAVE SOUL?
Many men and women have read romantic novels and seen Hollywood movies. Therefore, when they look for a partner, they think they’re...
Wala Truscott
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WHY ARE MEN SO ATTRACTED A WOMAN'S SOFTNESS?
Why are men so attracted to a woman’s body and her softness? A major study shows that men find feminine women most attractive....
Wala Truscott
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WHAT IS GOOD SEX?
In movies and erotica, sex always looks good (and sounds even better). But in reality, sex can leave you feeling loved, supported and...
Wala Truscott
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WHY ISN'T LOVE ENOUGH?!
If you're relying on 'love' alone to keep your relationships alive - you're kidding yourself! Why do I know this? Because relationships...
Wala Truscott
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THE NIGHT THAT CHANGED MY SEX LIFE FOREVER!
A personal share of the night I had mind-blowing sex with a man I didn't even know! Sex is sacred. Sex is self-love. Sex is a pleasure....
Wala Truscott
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ORGASMS ARE OVERRATED FOR SOME PEOPLE
ORGASMS AREN'T ALWAYS A GOOD THING... If you require your partner to orgasm, your EGO is at play. I get it; most people enjoy witnessing...
Wala Truscott
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WHY DO RELATIONSHIPS FAIL?
Leave your pleasantries for your parents…. Many of us were raised by parents who valued a child who was well behaved, obedient, easy to...
Wala Truscott
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STOP RANDOM TOUCHING
How we cultivate erotic touching in a relationship is highly dependent on what happens OUTSIDE of the bedroom, more than what happens in...
Wala Truscott
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WHERE ARE ALL THE GOOD MEN? MAYBE THEY'RE RIGHT IN FRONT OF YOU
So, you want a man who is awake, conscious, trustable and who is able to lead you while bringing out the best in you, as a woman? Where...
Wala Truscott
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THE SUPERPOWERS OF FRIENDSHIPS
With all the swiping, tapping and texting - finding a dick-date or being entertained with the endless 'send me pics' and when they get...
Wala Truscott
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HAVING AWKWARD BUT IMPORTANT CONVERSATIONS….
What stops us from having conversations that will give us the truth? Even if you don't like what you hear, at least you'll know. . The...
Wala Truscott
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HE'S PROBABLY NOT AS STRONG AS YOU THINK...
"Wala, I need to see you – my marriage is heading in the wrong direction, and I can't seem to pull it back. If I don't do something, I...
Wala Truscott
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WHAT WOMEN WANT YOU TO KNOW!
The Free Man - Online Coaching Program - PILOT PROGRAMME - Limited Places Be a better lover in 6-weeks. As a man, you are entitled to a...
Wala Truscott
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SEXUAL SATIFACTION EXPLAINED....
On a hot summer Friday night after some tacos and sangria with my awesome friend Moo, as I drove home, Savage Garden’s song Universe came...
Wala Truscott
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STOP SAYING MEN ARE SEX CRAVED IDIOTS!
A Belgian psychotherapist famously said, “People won’t die without having s*x, but people will die without being touched.” Indeed,...
Wala Truscott
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TILL DEATH DO US PART IS BULLSHIT...
I want someone who chooses me but, it's never guaranteed until death... Those who know me personally are very well aware that I was put...
Wala Truscott
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